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Erectile problems often come from a mix of body, mind, relationship and lifestyle. In standard care, this tends to get too little attention.
With erectile problems, you need to get checked by a doctor first. Serious physical causes have to be ruled out and dealt with properly. Often, though, that is where it ends: a check-up and a prescription for ED medication. The psychosocial side tends to get left out, and so does looking into other possible causes.
I had erectile problems myself and, for quite a while, had to deal with them on my own. As a doctor, I also know that a short appointment simply doesn’t leave enough time to look into this properly. Both perspectives have given me a realistic view of what is achievable.
I am a medical doctor and resident in psychiatry, training to become a psychiatrist. I am currently training in clinical sexology with the ESSM and ISSM. In the past, I struggled with erectile dysfunction myself and experienced the limitations of our healthcare system first-hand. From this grew a practical approach to supporting men with this problem effectively and to improving and maintaining their sexual health and quality of life in the long term.
“I know how much erectile problems can affect quality of life, and how disappointing a short, seemingly superficial doctor’s appointment can be.”
During my medical studies I first worked as a nurse, and later as a resident in psychiatry. I worked with people with a very wide range of psychiatric conditions, with a particular focus on addiction and depression.
I am a member of the European Society for Sexual Medicine (ESSM) and am currently undergoing training and supervision in clinical sexology.
(Nikolai Blekic is not a certified sexual medicine specialist or sex therapist and does not claim to be one. He knows the limits of his professional competence, which is why ongoing medical care is a prerequisite for taking part in the coaching. The programme is therefore deliberately positioned as coaching, not as medical treatment or psychotherapy.)
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Yes, absolutely. The coaching takes place entirely online. Only you decide what you want to share, and nobody around you needs to know anything.
For men who want to protect their erectile function in the long term instead of relying on quick fixes, and who feel dismissed and misunderstood after a doctor’s appointment.
You get an individual action plan with scientifically grounded interventions instead of vague advice, delivered in 12 structured one-to-one sessions of 45 minutes. It is tailored to your situation, not a one-size-fits-all programme, and it covers topics that rarely get enough time at a regular doctor’s appointment.
That depends on the individual and the topics we work on. The first positive changes may show after a few weeks (this varies from person to person and is not a promise of results), while lasting changes usually settle in over the twelve weeks of the programme.
No. I am a medical doctor and resident in psychiatry, training to become a psychiatrist. I am currently training in clinical sexology with the ESSM and ISSM. The coaching itself is not a medical programme but my own approach, which draws, among other things, on my own experience as a patient. Supporting men with this problem is my attempt to close a real gap in care.
No. If you have erection problems, seeing a urologist is the first and most important step, to rule out physical causes and get an individual diagnosis. The coaching does not replace medical diagnosis or medication such as PDE-5 inhibitors (e.g. Viagra). It complements them.
Absolutely not. A physical examination and any medical care should be carried out by a urologist. The coaching takes place entirely online and, through conversation, looks at underlying topics ranging from lifestyle factors and relationships to self-doubt.
We look at your situation together, I answer your questions, and you find out whether and how the coaching could work for you. No sales pressure – you decide afterwards, in your own time.
That is exactly what the free, no-obligation call is for: to clarify together beforehand whether the coaching fits your situation. After the contract is concluded, you also have a statutory 14-day right of withdrawal.
Research shows that combining medical care with psychosocial support works better than medication alone. Lifestyle changes can lead to lasting improvements in erectile problems, and coaching is an effective way to put behaviour change and the matching lifestyle adjustments into practice.
StudiesMany men also turn to unreliable sources online, which can delay proper care or even make things worse.
